I hope you find a good partner or at least become less upset about being alone. Maybe you should be looking for a friendship, as friends tend to be easier to make and usually last longer than partnerships. Mark Savage from Berkshire is on a mission to find love. Women are expected to frequently have their eyebrows waxed and not be horridly smarter than the males around them, or else lose any chance of finding a partner. I'm sorry that you cannot find a partner and that you feel as though you are lacking attention, but it probably has nothing to do with this theory of attention related to gender. If a woman breaks one or two of these societal norms they are labelled as "gross" and not worth pursuing.